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The Importance of Creating Practical Resources

Use My Code: DRLIZ10 for 10% off! Dr. Liz Powell: So Kristen, thank you so much for joining. I’m so excited to have you here. I really appreciated the copy of the game that you sent me. I had some fun playing it with one of my sweeties.  Kristen: Great.  Dr. Liz Powell: So tell […]

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What Should You Do if You’re AMAB and Feeling Isolated?

Recently, a non-binary AMAB person reached out to me to share their feelings of isolation, loneliness, and even having been kicked out of communities in the past. This is something that I have seen discussed at length by other AMAB folks in the community, so I think it’s worth discussing here to have a productive […]

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Reflecting on Trans Day of Visibility

At the end of March, we celebrated Trans Day of Visibility to recognize the trans folks in our lives and communities while also shedding light on the discrimination we face. My own relationship with gender started way back when, as a child, I was such a tomboy, but I loved wearing dresses! For a period […]

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I’m Not Confident in the Bedroom. Is That a Turnoff?

I have a lot of trouble being confident in the bedroom and it seems to be a turnoff for my partners. How can I get out of my head and into the moment when playing? Okay. So, I mean this is a tough one to answer because there are so many different ways that this […]

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What’s the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum?

What’s the difference between boundaries and ultimatums and how can I make sure these limits are being handled ethically and maturely? So a boundary is about your own self. It is things that you do or do not allow people to do with your body or your time or your heart, whatever. So, I can […]

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Your Safe Word Is Yours to Use!

The idea of using a safe word feels like it could ruin the mood. How can I keep things spicy while communicating something isn’t fun while staying in a scene? So, I have so much empathy for where this question comes from and if the mood is so fragile that you saying, “This isn’t fun […]

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How Should I Respond When I Get Misgendered?

Do you have advice on how to handle being misgendered? Sort of. I think that the way you handle being misgendered is going to depend on you, how resourced you are, what the situation is and like how – like what kind of misgendering it is. I think that there are a lot of different […]

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How Can I Understand My Partner Better?

Do you have any advice so that I can better understand my partner? Yes. Ask them. There’s not a lot of specifics on this one. So, I don’t know if there’s like a specific thing around what we’re trying to understand in our partners. But in general, the best way to understand someone is to […]

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Feelings for your metamour? Here's what to do.

I’m starting to get feelings for my metamour and don’t know what to do. How do I talk to my partner about it? So, I guess I have questions. Have you been dating your metamour or is this just a like they’ve been hanging around with your partner and now you have a crush on […]

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Friends with benefits, but want more? Here's what to do.

So, the question, tips for making the best of an enjoyable friends-with-benefits kink connection when you also want more, like a relationship. Okay. So, I think that my question would be, can you be happy with it exactly as it is? Can you be happy with this connection exactly as it is without needing it […]

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