So this is from a comment on one of my YouTube videos. “I saw your interview with Watts The Safeword and have been watching your channel ever since. I have recently discovered an amazing new humiliation kink that directly reduces dysphoria and I was wondering if you might be interested in making a video about […]
How do I support my trans friends with all of the current legislation being put in place? So this is a really good question. There is a Twitter account, let me see if I can find quickly what that Twitter account is, that does a weekly basically call-to-action of if you want to support trans […]
What is rainbow capitalism and how do I know that I’m actually supporting queer companies? So, rainbow capitalism is the term for the way that on June 1st, many, many, many companies all of a sudden have a rainbow logo and are talking about like, “We support Pride!” even if for the rest of the […]
Dr. Liz: What is aftercare? What does it mean? What does it look like? What are your tips for aftercare? So for anyone who doesn’t know, aftercare is a term in the kink community that refers to the things that you do after a scene to help the top and the bottom kind of recover, […]
Dr. Liz: What tips do you have for preparing for your first kink event? I mean the tips that I would give folks is like number one, you don’t have to do all of that. I promise. All the shopping you think you need to do, all the preparing you think you need to do, […]
Dr. Liz: Yeah. Yeah. How do you keep the spark alive in long-term relationships? Rebecca: Oh, that is – I think that is a really – it seems like an easy question and is also a really tough question because it’s going to depend so much on who you are as individuals and who you […]
How do I know if a partner is gaslighting me? This is a complex question. And the thing about gaslighting is that it is by its very nature, designed to be as invisible as possible. Some things that I would say to look out for. If during conflicts, you feel really confused about why there […]
Can frequently masturbating negatively impact my sex life? It can in the way that anything can. If you are spending 12 hours a day playing video games, that can negatively impact your sex life. If you are working 16 hours a day, that can negatively impact your sex life. The thing here is about balance […]
Can people still cheat in polyamorous relationships? Yes! Absolutely. This is like can abuse happen in BDSM? Yeah, totally. The difference is consent. So in BDSM, when we hit people, we do it in a way that they enjoy and in a way that we have agreed to do it with them and we have […]
What advice would you give someone wanting to add toys to the bedroom for the first time? And the follow-up to that is, how can you be safe using toys with multiple partners? So this is a question I get predominantly from people who are cisgender, straight, and monogamous. The reason being, that most queers […]
