Wouldn’t it be awesome if things in life followed direct, simple paths? If your progress at learning a new instrument or how to crochet or a new habit would go from 0/100 to 100/100 in a simple, easily understood, linear fashion? Sadly, change almost never happens in a straight line. Today, I was meeting with […]
Dear readers, I have a confession. I am a workaholic. My workaholism comes from several sources. First, I really, really, really love what I do. Helping people achieve their goals and get the life they want is such an amazing opportunity; every session I get to spend with a client reignites my passion for this […]
So the blog for this week is the review of a book that I finished a while ago. I haven’t written about it before now because this book really made me think. The Game Changer by Franklin Veaux (@franklinveaux) is the kind of book that stays with you. It pops back up every so often, reminding […]
One of the most common issues that people bring to me is when they’re having really serious relationship issues and feel lost. Sometimes their partner has betrayed their trust, sometimes their sex life isn’t working, sometimes their partner is cruel to them. In all of these situations, the person comes into my office and spills […]
Last week, I talked about sluts and how those with high desire, no desire, and everything in between are all totally normal and expected variations in expression of sexual desire. After that post, I had some men approach me separately to talk about their new thoughts that they might be demisexual to some degree. One man […]
If you have two friends and one likes to get 9 hours of sleep and the other likes to get 7 hours of sleep, which one is a slut? Does that question seem confusing? Let me try another one. If you have two friends and one of them loves rollercoasters and can’t get enough and […]
Welcome to another blog, everyone! This time, we’re doing something a little different - a book review! I'm writing about what has become my new favorite book, Polly: Sex Culture Revolutionary by Polly Whittaker. This book is Polly Superstar’s memoir and a description of the cultural revolution she is hoping to usher in, starting with […]
(Image "BondageTape2" by kris krüg. Licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 2.0 via Wikimedia Commons) As I’m sure most of you already know, October was Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This is a wonderful effort to bring awareness about DV and offer resources to those both facing DV and those hoping to intervene. The National Coalition Against […]
As many of you may have seen on Facebook/Twitter/etc. yesterday, September 23rd, was Bisexual Visibility Day. Now while most people are familiar with Gay Pride celebrations, some may wonder why we have a day for making bisexual people more "visible." After all, shouldn't Gay Pride include bisexuals the same way it includes lesbians and trans* […]
Recently, I saw an article titled "What Your Doctor Wishes You Would Ask About Sex". In it, I found some really disquieting statistics: "Despite the countless ways sex saturates our culture — from overt mentions in music and on TV to ads touting male performance boosters — talking about sex mechanically and medically can be […]
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