Dr. Liz’s latest videos, interviews, and expert advice

What is “Solo poly”? How is it different from “Single Poly”?

Cathy: What is solo poly and how would you live it? This is Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych. Liz: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: And you define yourself as solo poly. Liz: Yes. Cathy: And I consider myself single poly, which is different and I’d love to help people understand that. […]

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What’s good beginner bondage gear?

Liz: This is a test of the emergency broadcast system. Cathy: If this had been actual emergency. Liz: If this had been an actual emergency, you should have like called the police or something like gotten the fuck out right now. Cathy: Yeah. I mean we can help with like move or advice or something. […]

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Tips for hot, healthy, humiliation play

Cathy: So if you’re into humiliation play, how do you use your words to really rev up the energy? I’m here with Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych. Liz: And I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: And Liz teaches a class on humiliation play. And this isn’t for everybody, and that’s cool. […]

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Get more yes without being manipulative

Cathy: So how do you increase the chances of getting yeses from people? This is Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych. Liz: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: And we have a lot of people writing in about wanting to improve their chances of connecting with people and we were talking in the […]

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How do you define abuse - sexual, physical, mental, etc.?

Cathy: What is abuse and when should you be concerned about it? This is Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych.   Liz: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. So to start out, we have a definition from the National Domestic Violence Hotline, “Abuse is a repetitive pattern of behaviors to maintain power and control […]

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Questions about Herpes (HSV) and polyamory

Liz: We get a lot of questions about herpes and especially with polyamory, how do you know if you’re at risk, who has it, how common is it, how do you prevent it, all of those questions and more. This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: And this Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych. […]

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Involuntary celibacy (Incel)

Cathy: So we’ve had a lot of responses to the video Reid Mihalko and I did about Incel, which is involuntary celibacy. And one of the things that someone wrote in is that, a gentleman who has had this problem. He has not been able to connect with someone sexually for a long time. He […]

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What is Gaslighting anyway?

Cathy: So this is a delicate subject. Liz: Yes. Cathy: And we want to handle it with compassion and care. But it’s a very serious and we consider it very important. There has been a lot of use of the word “gaslighting” and we want to help define the word and also we’re seeing it […]

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Three Biggest Mistakes in Non Monogamy

Hi. What are the biggest mistakes people make when they’re trying to have a non-monogamous relationship? I’m Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych. Today, I’m starting a series. So what I’m going to do in this video is give you my 3 things that most mess up you non-monogamous life. And then I’m going to go […]

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How to handle jealousy in your relationships

Cathy: Let’s talk about jealousy. Liz: Oh, the green-eyed monster. Cathy: Yeah. We both have green eyes. Liz: Yeah. Well, they might be green today. Mine do like green tea, yellow, hazel. Cathy: Nice. Liz: I’m basically a cat. It’s cool. Cathy: This is Dr. Liz from Sex-Positive Psych. Liz: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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